Ever had a boss, friend or a love partner with someone who is all about me? Someone who only listens to him or herself? A partner who changes the topic, gets defensive or mad at you when you try to talk about difficulties you’ve been experiencing?

Have you ever met a chutiya aka an asshole who gives no regard for anybody but themselves? Chutiyas are otherwise known as narcissistic assholes. 

They walk this earth as self centered, controlling, attention seeking and/or manipulative people who have impure intentions and use people for their own gain.

Some questions we ask:

• What is the difference between being ‘dependent’, independent’ and ‘interdependent’ on people? (1:00)  
• What are the symptoms of a ‘chutiya?’ (2:00)
• Have you ever confronted a chutiya or do you make excuses for their behavior because they are a family member or friend? (7:00) 
• If you are a chutiya, do you care what people say about you at your funeral? (8:00)
• Do nice guys finish last? (10:00) 
• Are chutiyas living their best lives? (10:00)
• Are chutiyas self aware or ignorant? (11:00)
• Do chutiyas surround themselves with other chutiyas? (11:00) 

In this episode, we discuss how to pinpoint a ‘chutiya’. We also offer valuable lessons on how to be a better human being and provide mutual value within relationships. 

If you come across a chutiya, your mantra should be “If I cut you off, it’s because you handed me the scissors.” 

Be aware of your words, actions and thoughts..Re-evaluate and live a more pleasant life ‘chutiya-free!’